Hi all,
I have a different problem...
people have problems due 2 their love life but mine is the vice-versa
my problem is that there is this guy who was a friend of mine
& i swear he was just a frnd
But as he was my brother-in-laws brother my brother in law didn't like my talking wid him
& i stopped talking wid him.
Now the thing is that once i was casually telling my cousin dat my brother-in-law shouldn't
have done this(restricting me 2 talk wid him)as we were just frnds.
Now she is spreading a rumour dat i had an affair wid dat guy.
and the most disappointing thing is dat my relatives even believe her.
I m quite conservative & don't like it.
I m a student & i think this is effecting my studies very badly.
wenever my relatives talk among themselves i feel dat i m the main character of their talk.
I feel really disgusted & m unable 2 convince my relatives dat i m not dat kinda girl.
This year i m going 2 give my boards & m unable 2 concerntrate on my studies.
I have sworn never 2 Be frnds of Boyz...

You should give hell to that cousin of yours.
Make her tell everyone the truth.

BTW nothing wrong being frnds with boys......

I hv few suggestion towards ur problem (according to me there is nothing like problem in ur problem.)

- Pl. involve ur parents or elder brother/sister and explain tat there is nothing in ur mind, and also same will be explain to ur relatives by ur parents or elder brother/sister.

- Secondly be confident and try to neglect/avoid other's reaction. Once there is nothing in ur mind then u should not worry about what other think/believe about u. As it is next to impossible to stop people gossiping, b-coz world's testiest thing is " Gossip".

- You must have to concentrate on ur study, make goal towards study/carrier, which motivate u to study hard. B-coz u r alone responsible for ur success/failure. So develop concentration.

- At last pl. give up the mentality of " I have sworn never 2 Be frnds of Boyz" I m not advise u to continue ur friendship with Boyz, but change ur concept towards any issue, i.e. in this particular case wherein u r not responsible at all then y u felt guilty? So be confident and be positive

Can you answer me that what is meaning of friend? Secondly, I would like to suggest you that dont try to explain anything to anyone. It will expose you more in your family. Be silent and keep your working doing. Believe me it will work if you are true in your way.