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Hi friends!! I have friend before two years and after that we love each other but the promblem is that he is other caste and i am also in other caste he want marry me but i am think about my parents i love my parents so much i cannot hurt both of them what can i do plz give me ur suggestions i know my parents cannot agree and i cannt live without my bf ?


Fri Mar 30, 2007 9:59 pm
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You can’t eat the cake and have it too. You can eat the hen and look for the eggs too. If you intend to follow your heart, you will have to stop listening to the head and if you intend to follow the head, you will have to forget the heart. Muskan, I don’t feel there is other way out. However, practically I know, if there is nothing wrong with guy parents do accept the marriage if it is forced upon them. But you should be convinced that the guy is good, he will be kind to you and can fully look after you.


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thats a pretty good answer, Rahul (as would be expected ---being Rahul :)
but she maybe able to have her cake and eat it too; ease the parents into getting to know the guy, don't drop the bomb on them; if you are a daddy's girl, get him on your side. On the other hand if Mom's a softy, work on her! I suppose it depends on your relationship with the parents, how open they are---I wish you the very best!
Could he not pretend to be whatever race would be accepted? let him take some acting lessons!
Seriously though sometimes so called love is only made stronger/romantic due to opposing forces at work; like Rahul said, make sure the relationship is a strong, stable one, in case you have to fight for it! Good Luck!


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mere hisab se plo apne parents say baat karni chahiye. agar vo mante hai to thik hai nhi to aap apne bf ko samjao.
yeh jarruri nhi hai ki aap apne parents khud baat kare. kisi or say kahye jiski baat aapke parents maan jaye. aap apne parents ke khilaaf mat jana.



bye reply me . mera suggestion kesa laga


Mon Apr 16, 2007 9:38 pm
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Grow Up:
All humans are equals
Forget about caste system and you will prosper
Look at the other qualities in the person
You will not be for long at home
If U are educated enough, you wont think about caste
Come to the west
Alwyn


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