Hey Friends..

I just read this sher somewhere ..

AASUO KO PALKON TAK LAYA NA KARO ,
HAAL-E-DIL HAR KISI KO BATAYA NA KARO,

LOG HAATH ME NAMAK LIYE FIRTE HAI,
APNE ZAKHM HAR KISI KO BATAYA NA KARO.


But how far it is true in present situation , How many of us share our so called "Zakhm" with other people ?

I don't remeber whether following "Doha" is from which author (i guess Rahim )

MAN KI BAAT , MAN ME RAKHE GOY .. (i don't remember it completely)

So what do u think ? Is this relevant today also ?

well i dont think that way...
Though it may be such.. but one should not move according to the world..
rather can make world move their way..

and also not all are same...

u can share with someone u feel comfortable

I agree with Piyusha... Hemant

also wht i belive is , we need not require to be afriad of sharing ur "Zhakams" with people thinking they wil put more salt on it , we shuld not forget this Zakham pe Namak Chidak ne wale se bada Marham lagane wala hota hai.. an u never know may b whome u think wil put salt on ur zakham migt be actullythe one waiting for applying marham on ur zakham..

I don't know, I think it takes strength to keep some things to oneself. It makes for an intriguing, mysterious, interesting personality. Its better to heal than be healed. Share for the love of sharing not to be unloading or expecting to be healed. All are jakhmi here

Ok Guys..

I think u got my point to some extent but not completely ..

Actually there are few examples here :

1. A Little boy killed Bird .. He felt guilty and went to his mom/dead or someone .. and confessed this in front of them ... He can confess this in front of anyone..

2. A Young boy got indulged in Drugs in his school ... He felt guilty and went to his good friends and told them about it .. He can confess this in front of his close friends not his parents .. Age matters here

3. A Young man accidently killed a popular person mistakenly or some other reason .. Police is looking for the person who committed this crime.. He feels guilty here but where to go ? May be possible that his friends turns up into enemy and instead of showing him way , they might take him to police...

4. A Popular young man , many other people in his relations or friends are jealous of his popularity .. Now he knows that he has one weakness .. he fears of cockroaches.. He never shared this fear with anybody else.. Whom do u think he shud share this with ?

Do you think these four situations are the same ?

@Piyu , Its not about moving the world in ur own way .. Its not about telling anybody whom u are confortable with .. You can find many friends whom u think they are close to u , but in actual its not like this vice versa

@Shaan, Zakham par marham wohi laga sakta hai , who u think he can do .. but until u are not sure, how can u show ur zakhm to them ... Risk involves

@Th3ki , Its being in advantage sometimes if u are introvert, mysterious .. But not in all cases..


So guys, What do u infer from mentioned 4 situations ?