thanks a lot fool but i just wanna ask u tht if he is serious with tht gal then how cum he is dating other gals tht means he also ditching her then wat kind of lv this but still dont know i think he is the best guy for me though my brain knows tht he didnt lv me at all nd always tortured me physically,mentally nd most important emotionally.whom shud i listen tell me to my heart or my brain?

I agree with u, that the guy is also ditching that gal

but at the end of the day he is still with her now the qestions is wether he has the same attitude with that gal as he behaves with u?

if u know this then u have ur answser?

might be that gal dosent know any thing and she is also harrassed in the same way.

but if a guy is flirting with so many gals just for fun (might be) then either he thinks all these as granted or just jokes or might be taking as enjoyment.

what so ever my dear freind it could be his attitude.

see i have a suggestion for u may agree with one of it, few of it , partilally or with all of it, and u may deny the same in same sequence.

see already u knew he is ditching u, also mentally, physically , & most imp emotionally torturing u that means he dosent loves u but still u love him.

see u can doo one thing fo rthe shake of urself, ur family and also for that guy stop responing to him, stop meeting him and start a new work take an new aim in ur life that u will gona acheive these goals in the sapn of one year.this will not only reduce the tension but also sove ur problems also give u time to think, whom to chose what to choose and when to choose,

and u know some times we ignore some thing important in life and realizes later on that what i lost in my life let the guy have some time and let him too decide wether he is missing something or not might be one day u get what u want u might be will be with that guy and he is the one who loves u more than any one and like any thing

but for all these u have to take an initative just by giving some time to these tihings wright now make some new freinds go to outing start preaparing for studies and better if u can join any personality development type classes or some thing like that this will help a lot to u.

rest to divert ur mind u can visit Foolz paradize view all these pages and keep talking to all of us

and i am sure not for than after six months from we will have a new freind full of joy, happiness, & love. u will be heading to ur bright future and start doing/searching a job.

and plzz let me know if i can do any thing for u.

we are here with you my dear freind

very thorough, can't think of anything to add! So what've you decided?

thank u so much fool a lot .ill try my best 2 help myself nd thanks evry body