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Post  Long Distance Relationships
As years go by, the dynamics of relationships are changing rapidly. These days, online relationships are becoming more prominent. And also more and more couples are being forced to stay apart because of career, education or any other reason.

Do you think long distance relationships can survive? Let it be online relationships or any other type of relationships. Will distance play a factor in the success of that relationship?


Sat Nov 24, 2007 8:29 pm
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I would say as ever, it does depend on the individuals involved. The most vulnerable issue at stake here is that distance lessens the communication; so what this would rest on is how often are the individuals communicating with each other.

Being apart can possibly increase the longing and craving for togetherness, and as they say distance apart can increase affection. There would be an increased awareness of what that person means in your life, and how it feels without them. In a sense, it's ensuring that the relationship isn't taken for granted. However at the same time, the distance apart could create an increased sense of insecurity. The not knowing when you'll get together again sometimes may make one wonder if the relationship will really last, or if perhaps you wonder if you have gotten used to living without them in your life. Or sometimes, one may doubt how mutual the commitment itself is, since you cannot be sure of the other's actions and only base what you know about them on their own words. Perhaps that's being paranoid, or perhaps it isn't.

I guess it depends on the level of trust and honesty between the two individuals in the relationship, as well as it resting on patience and faith. :)


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I also think as rahul says it depend on the individuals involved, as it is useful as also it has draw back too, Thru online u can find/choose the person of ur interest, level etc. but simontanously it require high level of trust and honesty , b-coz it may possible that in online relationship a person can easily hide his weakness/darker side and gloryfy the his/her other quality (which may possibly missing in him/her too.) in nut shell u never judge a person thru online relationship only u can get a glimpse of his/her.

How ever its a good point Nidhi

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Post  Re: Long Distance Relationships
well well....'TRUST' is wat i thnk the most important thing in a relationship...wether u r 1000 miles awy from ur partner or live together...if TRUST is not der, no relationship can last.....


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We set goals in our life to acheive what we want same as we prioritize our belongings but If importance be given to career/money/luxry then I think relationships are not important.Its the enviorment of our society that lets us how to deal with our relations.


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