hi frnds
I'm tanya.I have a boyfriend from last 20days named Roshan.....besides that i 've a very very nice frnd named Sahil(since 1year).......its true that I never met sahil bcoz we r chat frnds.....we saw each other through photographs only........whereas Roshan and me were childhood frnds.....I know roshan very well even my parents also know him.....but the day when i told about my relationhip to sahil.....that day i realised that i really really love sahil not roshan.....I'm far from both of them--->
roshan is in b'lore and sahil is in pune.......wat to do????.........shall i ask sahil that i love him???or i shall wait for me to fall in love with roshan???or i should sit ideal and only think bout my studies????....plz answer me frnds

Hi Tanya, You have not mentioned about ur study,i.e in High School or College.
My suggestion for ur problem is as under.

- It is too early to decide the Love on the basis of chatting only. You know about him what he only chat or say what he mentioned during chatting, it may possible that he glorify only artificial things about him. I suggest if u r serious about him pl. meet him personally along with ur close friends or ur from ur family who is close to u and try to assess him and then only be think about him for further relation.

- Second thing u ask that “ Wait for fall in love with Roshan” m surprised by this one , Love is not a thing for which people wait for fall into it, that means u r not sure about him, hence m think that u should have to develop friendship with him and if find suitable then only to be think about him.

HOWEVER I SUGGEST MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT PL. DON’T LOOSE UR CONCETRATION FORM UR STUDY/CARRIER

All the Best.

hi Cyrus
m Tanya and m a Maths(hons) 1st year student and also preparing for engineering entrance exams......
u 've mentioned to meet him....can u give any suggestions how to meet him????coz he is working in pune and I'm in jamshedpur.....then how to meet him??? If web cam chat will work or not???
and u r right that i cant force myself to fall in love with Roshan

my Bhabhi is working in pune but its not safe to tell her bcoz i dont know that she will support me or not????

HI Tanya , first of all surprised by ur 1st query, as u hv mentioned that “I have a boyfriend from last 20days named Roshan” and in 3rd line u again mentioned that “whereas Roshan and me were childhood frnds”.

However it is not my look out but , as u r in just 1st year and also preparing urself for engg. Entrnc. According to me u r too young bout deciding all these things especially b-coz u hv yet to shape ur carrier.

Till then I think u hv to maintain healthy friendship with both of them.

yeah !!! u r right but in tht case if I lose Sahil......I mean if Sahil gets married to some other girl.....then wat wud i do???.......i will be regreting throughtout my life tht i have not even told him that i love him alot......well I'm 19yrs old......sahil is 25....and Roshan is 21.....

Yeah!!! I hv mentioned that i(was 9yrs old) and Roshan(was 11yrs old) wer childhood frnds but we hv stayed together for only one and a half year.....actually Roshan was my neighbour.....then he went to MP for studies, he qualified Xiith from there....and after that he went to b'lore...nd now he is still there in B'lore...


I dont wanna Lose Sahil at any cost.....I LOVE HIM ALOT......