Hi Shankar
I can imagine your situation. Atitude of your wife is not right. But you have to make her realise that you are loyal with her and you love her. May be she has a friend or a family member who faced such a situation like a husband was disloyal with her wife so your wife is scared of losing you. Try to make her sure that you will never leave her. I think she will understand you. My best wishes are with you. Take care. Bye.

Hi Sufia,
Thx for your mail and understanding my situation, i tried to be loyal with my wife but she is not, she never think
of future, once she told me to leave her if i want too, i am trying my best to understand that i lover her very much
but she dont understand me. Sometimes i feel that she dont love me, this looks like one sided love, she still dont
know about my sister in law use to sms and email me, we did not do any love from many many days, thank you
so much for yr best wishes, i am trying to hadle the situation but it getting worse day by day, hope u understand
that how can a married couple stay together in one roof without loving each other?? Bye and take care.

Sufia wrote:Hi Shankar
I can imagine your situation. Atitude of your wife is not right. But you have to make her realise that you are loyal with her and you love her. May be she has a friend or a family member who faced such a situation like a husband was disloyal with her wife so your wife is scared of losing you. Try to make her sure that you will never leave her. I think she will understand you. My best wishes are with you. Take care. Bye.

both of ull y dont ull sit down and sort the matter of tht means u and ur wife

Hey Shankar
Ask your wife if she wants to live with you Happily then live with her otherwise leave her. If you have kids then think about them first. Make a dicision for your life and then stand for it. If i were in the same situation i do the same. Take care.

hi ! Reysun, thx fr yr advise, as requested i took advise from my wife, she is asking me to leave her and marry her
sister, but she will not look for other guy, i feel bad how can she stay alone for the whole life.???
Since long time we did not love each other, i dont know what to do. please adivse.

Reysun wrote:Maybe your wife can give you the best advise. Your wife will be encouraged to use and try other guy for herself.