Married and Unhappy ...


Married women need to feel Love and Married men need to be desired by their partners period !!

Put more love into your Life..Start today ... Read on ...

Do you want a wonderful life?
Do you want more meaning in your love life ?
Do you a want more affection & compassion?
Do you want a more passionate and intimate partner?
Do you want more happiness and love in your life?

Of course we all do... These are all vital human principles that we need to survive ..

If you have ever asked yourself any of these questions. Then you need an approach to find and achieve greater loving, joy and well-being in your life.

You have probably heard that love gives life meaning. But how do you create a more loving life?
How do you develop all the qualities that love generates to make your life happier and healthier?

Loving means caring for the well-being of ourselves and others,sharing the good times and the challenging times, sharing what is on our minds and hearts .. So how do you have more LOVE? How do you experience yourself being loved more? How do you love others more?
There is a way. You can have more loving, caring, sharing, affection, better relationships, more fun and more bliss.

One of the best things you can give your partner is your happiness ..
It isn't confilct that tears down a marriage, it is the resentment that is built ..

Why not take charge of your life and practice the things you know will bring more of the "good life"?

Deep inside of you there are powers that if discovered and used would allow you to achieve all that you ever dreamed or imagined you could become.

When two people decide to be together, it is becasue they are hoping that this person will be able to fulfill their every need.. They want to feel safe and secure, loved and desired, romanced and respected. We all have these qualities, but sometimes we just tend to take things for granted and lose appreciation for what really matters..(sharing love!) Lets get focused and back on track ... Spark that fire , enhance romance, and spice it up .. For sure you will be both delighted...Dont be the man without love or the women seeking love ...Your happiness depends upon it ..

Go For it ! You Can do it ! Your'e the Best !

Do yourself a favor and start now .

Love is a beautiful thing ...
It's not what you get , it's what you do with it ..

We all need to be desired , loved and need attention ..
If you think you are too good with your partner then think again ..

Happiness is generic, and is applied to almost every
kind of enjoyment except that of the animal appetites.

Only saint-like persons, who feel that they are no
longer interested in the external world, think that
happiness is within. For many persons, nothing can make
them happy. Our minds are as different as our finger
prints - no two are alike. Listening to loud music
makes one happy and makes another unhappy. Hence, there
can be no single definition for happiness. It is
probably impossible to objectively define happiness as
humans know and understand it, as internal experiences
are subjective by nature. Because of this, explaining
happiness as experienced by one individual is as
pointless as trying to define the color green such that
a completely color blind person could understand the
experience of seeing green.

As a state and a subject, it has been pursued and
commented on extensively throughout world history.

"Call no man happy till he is dead." - Aeschylus

"Happiness is a positive cash flow." - Fred Adler

"Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes
true happiness. It is not attained through
self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy
purpose." - Joseph Addison

"True happiness arises, in the first place, from the
enjoyment of one's self, and in the next, from the
friendship and conversation of a few select
companions." - Joseph Addison

Happiness is often associated with the presence of
favourable circumstances such as a supportive family
life, a loving marriage, and economic stability. Kali
Yuga, the age of darkness, is the time when these
favourables are difficult to find.

Unfavorable circumstances - such as abusive
relationships, accidents, loss of employment, and
conflicts - diminish the amount of happiness a person
experiences. In all nations, factors such as hunger,
disease, crime, corruption, and warfare can decrease
happiness. However, according to several ancient and
modern thinkers, happiness is influenced by the
attitude and perspective taken on such circumstances.

From the observation that fish must become happy by
swimming, and birds must become happy by flying.
Aristotle points to the unique abilities of man as the
route to happiness. Of all the animals only man can sit
and contemplate reality. Of all the animals only man
can develop social relations to the political level.
Thus the contemplative life of a monk or professor, or
the political life of a military commander or
politician will be the happiest according to their own
psyche.

The following is the self-reported positive affect
(i.e. positive emotion) during the day by 909 employed
women in USA:

Activities and their positive effect index:

Intimate relations 5.10
Socializing 4.59
Relaxing 4.42
Pray/Worship/Meditate 4.35
Eating 4.34
Exercising 4.31
Watching TV 4.19
Shopping 3.95
Preparing food 3.93
On the phone 3.92
Napping 3.87
Taking care of
my children 3.86
Computer/Email/
Internet 3.81
Housework 3.73
Working 3.62
Commuting 3.45

Interaction with partners:

w/ friends 4.36
w/ relatives 4.17
w/ spouse/Significant
other 4.11
w/ children 4.04
w/ clients/customers 3.79
w/ co-workers 3.76
w/ boss 3.52
alone 3.41

Further, happiness is not entirely psychological in
nature - it has got a biological basis too. The
neurotransmitter dopamine is involved in desire and
seems often related to pleasure. Pleasure can be
induced artificially with drugs. Use of drugs is not
some thing new, it has been used by many including
Sanyasis since millenia.