one year back i met a boy on chat, we love each other and got engaged few months back. thr is a girl in his ofc, she often call or message him after ofc hours and thay useto talk long. once we were togather and she called and my fiance talked to her more then half hr they were talking about ofice me pm ne mughe aisa kaha flirt kiya this that. i asked to my fiance about this he said she is just my friend. first time we fought on that day. he said it will not happen again but i cant say her not to call me bcoz mughe usse kaam hota hai.he says ki wo aisi nahi hai , uska khud ka boy friend hai .nowadays she doesnt call but she send messages any time even mid night.i always say she is flirting with u don't do it, keep yr ofc at ofc don't take it home but he always say you are wrong i am not having any relationship.how can i trust . he don't keep msg in his mob and even don't tell me jab tak mai khud na pooch lu ki kiska msg tha.he always try to ignore this Q. but i love him and trust him.lekin isse mughe bahoot dukh hua hai fiance ke liye jo jagah or jo respect mere man me thi wo ab nahi bachi hai. he says ki ye kuch galat nahi hai thik hai ab wo mughe mgs karti hai to mai kya karu maine to msg nahi kiya na.i am also working lekin mere sath kabhi aisa nahi hota ki koi raat me mughe phone kare wo bhi aise hi or hum ghanto baat kare. ab is relationship me wo pehle jaisa kuch bhi nahi reh paya hai. u people tell ki aap bhi aise hi kisi ko raat me phone or msg karte hai????????????????


is it right ??????????

trust is vague word. ppl use it to suit to their purpose. so dont think in those lines - if he trusts you or you trust him blah blah. in my opinion, some level of possessiveness is normal btw wife and husband. so is loyalty to each other. keep away frm ur 'mangetar' for 1 exact week. try not to think abt anything in this time. then after 1 wk, make a list of what you expect from him & if he is meeting those. if you think 'yes' then forget the differences. if 'no', then forget him and make your own life in a new way. warning - most of the times, what we call love is nothing more than emotional dependency. happiest person is who depends upon him/herself for happiness & sense of wellbeing. self-esteem plays a crucial part in how one sees oneself and as a result how one approaches relationships.