Of course there are professional help available
question is if he is ready to get help......

Sorry to say but you are in big trouble for your mistake.....

Heyyyy what happened to my post?
it was something like this---
Yes, big time counseling is in order for lack of intimacy, if he is willing to go with you. If I were you, I wouldn't blame myself, as I believe you may have been manipulated. Its not about fault or blame but getting the needed help. You have a three year old at home, who needs a good role model. Be strong, he needs help. Hope everything works out for you.

hi and thanks for the advice we went to mrs.luthra at c.p famous counselor by saying i need and the doc... to behaved in same way in front of us but in back she advised me that this will not stop so early and i m to be blamed 70% and have to cont...by bringing the pace gradually lower and lower with proving love and affection for hubby in expressive way.

Hi Bilota, I think u need to talk to your hubby about this as this is a very serious situation. U hv a child moreover another women can spoil ur home. Tell him you did that to make him happy and not to make it a routine. THis thing is frustrating you and might lead to break of relation in future. Your child is growing. she can observe the differences between you and ur hubby. So better find a solution as soon as possible to make ur love life a living heaven. Do consult a professional if needed.

God bless you. Be positive and life will be great!