hi everyone.... it's jordan here..... well... i had a girl as my net fren... n we used to share mails.... for about an year or so... denn... i started liking her... so i asked for her num in a mail.. n she gave me... denn.. i talked to her... n i really liked her.... i proposed her on phone only... n after a few dayz... she accepted.... in fact, i love her.... but after a few dayz... wen i called her.... she said everythi ng z over now... as because of my mistake... somebody in her relation came to know... abou' al di... but i don' think so... n even i asked her... who's dat..??? but she din't tell me.... but she says dat we r still frenz.... but no love.... m really disturbed cos of dat.... nyone plz tell me... wat wud be the best now..???[/i][/u]

HI Jordan.... online chatting can be exciting and interesting but it is hard to establish a strong relation with online mates...... it takes a lot of understanding, commitment, interest from both ends to make it possible....... and specially in online love..... it can only be a thrill and fantasy ....... and urs is just 1 year relation only.... I think you and ur online frnd tried to start a relation which leads to nowhere.... look Jordan.... u cant establish a relation with someone whom u have not seen or not known personally....... reality is very different and surprising than fantasy dear........ and I am sure that ur online frnd has no strong feeling on u as u do...... it is very clear.... n u hav to accept it....ok? now its in ur hands to maintain the kind of frndship she wants u to or not....... or waste ur time feeling sad thinking abt all the things which were just sweet fantacies....... be wise and brave..........