hi frnds
i hv a problm. i had a relationship with a guy for 10 mths nd he only proposed to me .frst we were just frnds but the most strange thing was tht we didnt see each other for 4 mths .we just used to talk over phone bcoz he was my best frnds brother.aftr 6 mths we met nd then also our relation continued.in this 10 mths we hv met 7 times nd tht also never alone.but to tell u he was vry possessive for me.nd used to abuse me but still i continued bcoz sumwhere i really lvd him.i took him as god.even on my birthday he didnt wish me nd when i calld him he told me tht he dosent think he wud be able to continue bcoz he dosent see any future then also i didnt utter a word .i just took his decision as an order but the most shocking news came tht he had a settle gf for 6 yrs nd its his habbit to play with gals .even he is cheating his gf from 6 yrs.nd the most worst thing was tht even my best frnd knew abt this but she didnt tell me ever tht he has a permanent gf .my best frnd knew tht i m going serious with her brother.still now i lv him nd feel for him.plz help me.wat shud i do bcoz not only he betrayed me but also his sister who was my best frnd.wat shud i do?i m totally devasted.

without thinking too much on this, the best thing right now maybe just to give yourself time.
the sister and a friend may have been hoping that you were better for his brother. But it doesn't sound like he loves you. Only you can decide her worth as a friend. But as for the boy friend, I think its better to stay away.

nothing is permanent here my dear.... learn to luv urself..... that a way to live life..... live ur life don't leave ur life.... God bless you-----Anjan

GUD 1 YAAR?WHO R U BY THE WAY ANJAN?