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Akruti
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 IS THAT LOVE?
I M HVING A FRND WHO IS OUT OF STATION PRESENTLY.I M NOT BEING ABLE TO FORGET ABOUT HIM EVEN FOR A MIN.WHENEVER HE GOT NEW G/F HE TELL ME ABOUT THAT AND ASK MY SUGGESTION.BUT I DON'T FEEL GOOD.AND JUST HATE THAT GIRL.IS THAT LOVE?
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| Wed Mar 21, 2007 6:13 pm |
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Asha
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Joined: Thu Jun 01, 2006 6:53 pm Posts: 16861 Location: In front of you
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There is no such thing as love Its crap....... Looks like you are jealous. He tells everything to you as a frnd.
_________________ "If you open your heart, love opens your mind."
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| Wed Mar 21, 2007 9:28 pm |
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shaan24
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Joined: Sat Dec 16, 2006 11:29 am Posts: 813 Location: India
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Hi!!! Akruti
I DO NOT AGREE TO ASHA AT ALL, there is LOVE an its no CRAP.. but in ur situation at this satge its difficult to say if its love or infatuation.. coz most of the time when we feel jelous u want the person buy hook or crook, but in love u let loose the person an even after he has many other relations an he considers u as priority an comes back to u then its love..
wait for some more time have patience an try an put him in situations wer he shows the same response u trying to think abt him... may be.. u will kno soon den if its love or just Infactuation..
so take care.. an dont take it too seriously.. if he is urs an only for u he wil definately be urs..
Keep smiling... an keep me posted of his reactions...
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| Thu Mar 22, 2007 10:27 am |
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Piyusha
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Joined: Thu Jun 01, 2006 10:23 am Posts: 35221 Location: Parody of Life..!
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I feel its jst a possesiveness we have towards our friends... Sometimes it happens and we misjudge the things as Love or infatuation. They say jealousy is a first stage of moving towards LOVE or relationships but nah i dont think so. Its jst a possesiveness... we feel insecure when our friends seems like taking interests in others. We feel like now we are no more a good person to share his/her things and he/she is interested in others.
Well according to me its jst a possesiveness... and mind u this is also a thing happening not only in Love..
Love is never understood exactly... if looked precisely, there are things associated with the feeling(they say LOVE) and can be sorted out seperately..
Its good to check those feelings taking our own time, before jumping to ne conclusion. Hence, scan the things properly
_________________ Pretend that every single person you meet has a sign around his or her neck that says, Make Me Feel Important/good. Not only will you succeed in sales, you will succeed in life……!
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| Thu Mar 22, 2007 10:59 am |
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Th3ki
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Joined: Tue Aug 08, 2006 3:58 am Posts: 3746 Location: MS
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Soooo is it possesiveness, piyusha?  Hey Akruti-- You could clarify it very easily. It doesnt' sound like he knows how you feel. As a friend, you should be able to talk with him, right?
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| Mon Mar 26, 2007 1:20 am |
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