I met a girl in 10th Class. I am in 12th Class now. I see her in my dreams and thoughts all the time. But I am afraid to propose her because I am not sure if I am love or is it Infatuation as we call it. Someone please suggest me, what should I do?

hey even i have faced problems like this.......if she knows u well.....then just go n say it to her.....or if u r 2 scared....then just continue flirtin wid her.....u don no her......well n gud.......either go to her as a frend n then tell ur love.....or stay away.....wen she doesnt know u exist....le it be the same all ur life.....there is someone out there in this world 4 u.....let it not be hib gal.....dats it!!!!

Dear,

You can't love a person without atleast talking to that person and getting to observe her behaviour, her attitudes, whether they match yours or not (for example, if you're a kind guy, she has to be equally kind, else you will end up not being able to stand her at all in the future!). Carefully analyse whether your basic positive qualities will not be strained by her outlook/approach/upbringing etc. Never make assumptions in life, they'll ruin a major part of your prime life during which you must grow up all round - emotionally, physically and intellectually.

So, if after observing her, you feel that she will be compatible with you, read on.

Next foremost, ask yourself whether you understand what you are feeling. Do you feel utmost sincerity, a ready willingness to accept all her qualities that you would point out as faults in any person? Do you feel intense yearning and longing for her? Do you feel that life is worth living because she is around you?

While observing her, if you came across any quality that you couldn't stand, and yet you felt that "no its ok - everyone will have some shortcoming like this!!! She is truly good in this respect.." even though you would have in no way accepted such a quality in anyone else, you are in love.

Take care dude. Hope this helps you. All the best, I pray that if you are truly in love with her, may both of you lead a happy married life and be a loving couple with noble kids!

Best regards,
Vijay.