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 What is True Love? 
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Vishal80
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Post What is True Love?

Hello,
My name is Vishal; I met a girl who has joined us as a junior 4 years before. I fell in love with her in first month itself. Then immediately I proposed her. But she didn’t accept & stopped talking to me. Then it took 2 months for her to talk to me again. Then we were continued with good friendship but I never forget her as that was my first love. I was always there for her whenever she comes under any problems/troubles. I was there like a mentor, guide, and well wisher. But after 3 yrs, she said she loved a guy & then due to some reason they broke up their relation. Again after couple of months she told that her marriage fixed. But I never forget her so I have proposed her one day. Then she suddenly stopped talking to me. I tried all the possible ways but no response. Finally I got some emails from a guy who used to be her friend in older days. Now both are telling that they are in love from past couple of years. After long struggle he gave permission to her to talk to me. Now she is talking to me, she will talk whenever she feel like to talk. She will never send a sms, email or greeting…just because she sees me like an enemy. Sometimes she least bothered when I suffer with my mental tensions & problems. But she is always a special for me. I don’t know what to do…can anyone help me with some mental support. Still I truly believe that she will understand me one day. What is the correct solution for my problem?

(Vishal)
Fri Feb 15, 2008 12:13 am
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CYRUS A.B.
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Dear Vishal,

According to me she prefer u as a friend only. Secondly once u knows that she is not loved u, then y u again insisting for that. See love happened only once, if the decision of love ever changed then it is not love but compromise.

What I suggest u that pl. divert ur mind in some other activity which give u mental satisfaction. Also try to make urself active/busy or concentrate ur mind towards work/job. After all life is not all about Love only. Make goal/Aim for life/future and work hard to achieve the same.

I know that to threw out from our heart to a person who is close to our heart is not easy but also not impossible too.

All the Best

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Fri Feb 15, 2008 4:49 pm
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Vishal80
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Thank You :D Cyrus

Any more suggestion for me. I am searching for more & more possibilities to come out of this problem.... :cry: :cry:

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Mon Feb 18, 2008 6:44 pm
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Hemant
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Agree with cyrus .. She is ur friend and want to be friend only .. I don't think she was the only new joinee ;)
Wed Feb 20, 2008 11:57 pm
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Wel Vishal,
Know m just a guest or a mere regular visitor of the forum, but stil i'd lv 2 start 4m here itself by lettin u knw my feelin.
C.. According to me i really think that its clear tht she isnt interested in u. She finds u good as a frnd, but d moment u propose her, shestops talkin. Probably shes unesy with it, or shes goin around with sum1 else who has a problem with her talkin 2 guys who propose her. So I gues the best is.. either 4get about the girl completely n live life to d fullest, else u cn b frnds with her but stil get over it n look around. Probably u'l realise tht u din get her cz God had sum1 better instore 4 u..
right?? :wink:
So... dun worry b happy... 4get all d tensions, divert ur mind.. n jus remember "Life's got sumthin better instore 4 u at every step"
(sry if u mind this reply, specially cz m an absolute stranger 4 u ppl)

tc..
cya soon
Fri Feb 29, 2008 6:58 pm
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