Married to the husband of your choice still feeling uncomfortable or should I say not satisfied

Rajji there is no such thing as love leave alone true love
its just human desire........

I know there is nothing lyk love.
But since ppl want to fulfil there desire by using this word, I had to make it exist.
Love ke naam pe bevkuf banate hai.
And I seriously want to know that what does Mrs. Sonam Khair have to say now regarding this.

First of all sorry to interupt,

Although i m not fully agree with Mrs. Sonam Khair, as wel as m not agree with Rajashree, sorry Rajshree that "there is nothing lyk love. " and "Love ke naam pe bevkuf banate hai. " it depends on ur choice and maturity of both the person, however definition of love may vary person to person, but there should be definately something which attract either side and also provide motivation, furthermore some factor also exist that bring two person close and develope their interest. But faith, loyalty and maturity is a must for that relation, otherwise it is " Love ke naam pe bevkuf banate hai. "
Simultaneously both the side has must possess high level quality to maintain the dignity of the relation.

According to me the feelings of Love is like the feelings of friendship, pure and neutral i mean without any expectation.

well thats what u believe
and Asha Di and I were talking about our perception
no offence with ppl who believe in so called love
its just that I don't believe in it

Okie guys.. hold on .. where are we going ?? Are we discussing love or extra-marital affair ?

I too believe "sometimes" that love doesn't exist .. but as you can't neglect god's existence, you can't refuse to make believe in "so called love" too ..

I was reading a poem by pu .. "pati humara aisa ho" (go to gog section) .. every girl has her own expectation (regarding the husband OR her own career).. but many times girls simply accept whatever situation it is .. they can't resist family pressure , but what happens after marriage .. what if you find a person who exactly (perfectly) meets all your expectation .. ??

I know they wud be loving their husbands that time like anything , but what if they don't like ?? (read all the lines Asha mentioned in her first post in this thread) .. lets assume that a girl got married against her wish (or say due to family pressure or whatever u call that).. she would have dreamt about her lover (in this case - husband) to have so many qualities .. but her husband doesn't meet her expectations ... later onwards in the life journey if she meets someone who exactly lies in the same range .. what wud she do ? Its a question which nobody can answer .. It doesn't depend on the wife , doesn't depend on her husband too .. whatever happens afterwards is the game solely played by the person who has fallen in this story .. He can be good or bad .. I don't know what is the classification, regardless of that it has to be him.

Whatever Sonam khair has describe might be true for her case .. but not in every case .. she might be weak or she might be strong (who knows) .. thats upon her .. she is the one , who has to manage both her own (married) life and extra-marital affair too ..

This time, to be very clear, I am not supporting either side .. If any question , probably we can discuss it more .. (but whats the use ?? )