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Watching a meaningful scene of movie "KANK" .. must watch it ..



Mon Feb 18, 2008 12:34 am
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I think I am still young for such a discussion.
well I never liked this movie "KANK"
may be I am toooooooo orthodox or whatever ppl say
but still I believe u can't cheat someone just because u don't like him/her any more or u've found someone better for u than him/her
if in case u found a better person then just leave the previous one
u don't have the right to spoil someone elses life
after this if question arises that why should u think abt any other person
then that depends totally on person to person
many ppl advice me that I should not think abt others
pehle khud ka bhala karo phir dusaro ka socho
but I believe khud ka bhala karo par dusaro ka bura mat karo
ab isme kabhi mera bura ho jata hai to I have an inner satisfaction that didn't do any thing wrong to some other person
this is what I believe
others may think differently
its all abt diffferent viewpoints of different ppl
but if EMA will be accepted by the society then a better solution will be to remove the commitment of a marriage from the society
I mean hadd hai agar shaadi bhi nibhani hai aur chakkar bhi chalana hai.
being with 2 ppl at the same tym is sick
whatever kind of insecurity our emotional imbalance or whatever u have in ur life, EMA is not the solution.
its impractical
the queston is "Why people have an affair after marriage??????"
my answer is that ppl are immature and they r not patient to find a better solution to the problems they have in their married life
if the marriage is bothering u so much and u r sooooooooo uncomfortable with it or u r not satisfied with ur partner or u found someone else better than the existing partner, then u have the option of divorce
still if u r bothered abt that what reason u'll give for divorce then u should have guts to accept that u have an EMA
and if u don't have the guts then its better to shut up and sit and cry on ur fate
but be a good human being and don't spoil ur partner's life and never cheat him/her


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its simply about being consistent at owns feel...
Cyrus is talking about love n all...guess tat comes gradually in a relationship after interest, respect & trust....
still we gals dont agree here to him, which is jst due to feeling being an alien for us.. :roll: or jst take it as a perspective differs..

Now wat hemanth talking bout is a moive .. but thinking on it precisely...u will find the characters there were also finding cushions for themselves..being selfish ofcourse :roll: Movie ke end mein bhi ek dialogue hai.. 'Kaash yeh raaste toote hua dil se na guzarte'....they too have guilt on tat.. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Marriage is i guess not only a rosy picture always...lots of rollercoaster ways out...and whoz having a tight grips, they only makes over it with the same essence as n when was started....

Wat is foremost is Consistency & Truthfulness

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you didnt' think i'd pass this over without putting my two cents in, did you?
Having an affair is an unfortunate event. I would think its a symbol of a broken marriage---
And there are probably as many reasons as there are affairs. For some its a matter of heart for others
a matter of another organ, whatever the reason; its definitely not conducive to society and not fair to each other.
not fair, unfair, an affair, hmmm kind of has a ring to it; oh unlike the wedding ring
I swear my mind must be doing weed without my knowledge :)


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thanks for ur 2 cents thiks...
but 'arrest tat mind' lolz

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