Rajshree wrote:I think I am still young for such a discussion.
well I never liked this movie "KANK"
may be I am toooooooo orthodox or whatever ppl say
but still I believe u can't cheat someone just because u don't like him/her any more or u've found someone better for u than him/her
if in case u found a better person then just leave the previous one
u don't have the right to spoil someone elses life
after this if question arises that why should u think abt any other person
then that depends totally on person to person
many ppl advice me that I should not think abt others
pehle khud ka bhala karo phir dusaro ka socho
but I believe khud ka bhala karo par dusaro ka bura mat karo
ab isme kabhi mera bura ho jata hai to I have an inner satisfaction that didn't do any thing wrong to some other person
this is what I believe
others may think differently
its all abt diffferent viewpoints of different ppl
but if EMA will be accepted by the society then a better solution will be to remove the commitment of a marriage from the society
I mean hadd hai agar shaadi bhi nibhani hai aur chakkar bhi chalana hai.
being with 2 ppl at the same tym is sick
whatever kind of insecurity our emotional imbalance or whatever u have in ur life, EMA is not the solution.
its impractical
the queston is "Why people have an affair after marriage??????"
my answer is that ppl are immature and they r not patient to find a better solution to the problems they have in their married life
if the marriage is bothering u so much and u r sooooooooo uncomfortable with it or u r not satisfied with ur partner or u found someone else better than the existing partner, then u have the option of divorce
still if u r bothered abt that what reason u'll give for divorce then u should have guts to accept that u have an EMA
and if u don't have the guts then its better to shut up and sit and cry on ur fate
but be a good human being and don't spoil ur partner's life and never cheat him/her