Some of the factors which plays important role in relationship are,
1) Mutual Understanding
2) Faith
3) Time for each other
4) Care

If the couple lack of any of above or all then there is Danger Signal for their Relationship.

It depends on intention behind that relationship, many relationship provide mental satisfaction/motivation to either side also. i think if both the side r mature enough to understand the depth of d relationship then nothing wrong in it.

Its not necessary that all the baove reasons r valid. I m married to the husband of my choice but then too share an extra marital affair. Thats bcoz i enjoy the other person's company. But that doesnt mean that i dont love my hubby as well. For me both the relations are equally IMP and pure.

So an extra marital affair is basically finding comfort in another person which starts lacking with the present marriage over a period of time, and it should be taken positively in good spirits. Just make sure u balance both ur relations well and sont let ur hubby know abt it.

Alls fair in LOVE n WAR...........

and where the love for other person emerges after marriage..?
and where the consistency part playing a role in this love n war..!
does tat not raise fingers on ownself....after u talking about something on comfort lacking in the present marriage

explain lady

oh man!
pathetic
poor guy
how can a person love 2 ppl at a tym
such a silly comment
gosh
and u r boosting abt it
I being younger than u can understand the situation in a mature way.
marriage is a game or what for u??
how can anyone take it in positive way when u need to hide it from everyone
still wondering is it a joke or what

and seriously
there are some rules to be followed in love and war
otherwise ppl can imagine what will happen
just as killing sumone is a crime, backstabbing is also no less than a crime
whosoever said this phrase "everything is fair in love and war" is the most stupidest person according to me
his act of giving this phrase was itself not fair

first u love someone and marry him
then u find some other person and have an affair
and u r happy
I must say u r not a true lover.